tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712958.post110700936631639885..comments2024-02-29T04:03:29.347+00:00Comments on fickle, funny, flawed, gorgeous: The Scourgeammanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09002764562048409240noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712958.post-7183299213153252702007-07-02T05:16:00.000+00:002007-07-02T05:16:00.000+00:00I dont want to get married to a stranger. But I wa...I dont want to get married to a stranger. But I want to be loved, and love in return. My parents will never understand. its my life. Dont I have a say in it??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712958.post-1144677267394549642006-04-10T13:54:00.000+00:002006-04-10T13:54:00.000+00:00Hi,I just read this post of yours. My chithi staye...Hi,<BR/><BR/>I just read this post of yours. My chithi stayed unmarried, by her choice. yes, everyone tell that she is too adament and high headed and all, but she managed to live a life, amazingly enough, maintainaing an upperhand whereever she goes.. She is well accepted, and well respected in the circle she moves. <BR/><BR/>In my home town, there are few women living like this. I won't say it is just normal for us folks, but there are few such cases, and they can live a *life*, when compared to what they would have got if it were to be a different place..Premalathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02741047367535557036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712958.post-1121299228705316532005-07-14T00:00:00.000+00:002005-07-14T00:00:00.000+00:00Before I write anything, I want to compliment your...Before I write anything, I want to compliment your blog and your style. <BR/><BR/>What you say is right. But we want to be accepted in the society, because we are living in it. Marriage is customary in our culture. Why? So that we can procreate and continue the family lineage. <BR/><BR/>This is the rule but there are always exceptions. One of my friends does not want to get married. He says that might live with a partner, but not marry. There is one more friend of mine who could not get married for no reason, so far, even though he always wanted to. The problem with this is after some time all your friends are married and you are the odd human out. When you are old you have no one to care for. This is the biggest fear. <BR/><BR/>I agree that you should get married when you want to, whom you want to and how you want to. But in a Society like India it is always not possible to swim against the tide. Not many have the courage of conviction to do that.<BR/><BR/>Thanks,<BR/>KMKMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00629805090947588509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712958.post-1118916925741458762005-06-16T10:15:00.000+00:002005-06-16T10:15:00.000+00:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.trishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02896403156237442180noreply@blogger.com